Help me care for my mother and my two aunts: three older sisters living with dementia and disability.I am their only caregiver.
My mother and my two aunts depend on me every day to eat, stay safe, attend medical appointments, and live in a dignified home.
Since April 9, 2026, I have been in Maracaibo responsible for their care. They cannot be left alone, and since then I have not been able to return to work normally.
I am asking for help to sustain food, health, safety, and care.
♡ Why I am asking for help
Three women who cared for others now need to be cared for
This is not a one-day emergency. It is a situation of dependence and ongoing care.
I returned to Maracaibo to care for my mother and my two aunts. The three of them are sisters and can no longer manage daily life on their own.
In this home, we live with dementia, intellectual disability, seizures, loss of independence, difficulty walking, incontinence, and episodes of confusion. They need supervision to eat, bathe, move around, and remain safe.
They cannot be left alone: they may become disoriented, consume all the food, use the kitchen unsafely, or leave the house without understanding the danger. That is why my work and my former life came to a halt.
The help is transformed directly into food, medicines, transportation, hygiene, repairs, and hours of caregiving support.
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My mother, Elvia
She lives with persistent confusion and seizures. She requires supervision, medical follow-up, and specialized tests.
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My aunt Alba
She was a lawyer and lived independently. Dementia has caused her to lose memory, orientation, and the ability to manage her life safely.
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My aunt Yoalis
She has an intellectual disability, difficulty walking, and needs constant help with hygiene, routines, and safety.
What the help is for
Four needs we must sustain
Select “Read more” to see the details of each need.
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Monthly need
Food
Approx. 900 US dollars per month
Three people need nutritious meals every day. The budget focuses on protein, natural fats, vegetables, and basic hygiene supplies.
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Eggs, sardines, and tuna in water.
Beef shank, beef ribs, and chicken.
Cheese, cream, and natural butter.
Tomatoes, carrots, cucumbers, and papaya.
Toilet paper, garbage bags, soap, and adult diapers.
Prices change constantly in Maracaibo, so the amount is approximate.
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Ongoing need
Medicines and transportation
Treatment, appointments, and transportation
My mother and aunts require daily medication, medical follow-up, tests, and safe transportation to healthcare facilities.
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Treatment for my mother and my older aunt:
Memantine, 10 mg tablets.
Valproic acid, 500 mg tablets.
Risperidone, 2 mg tablets.
My younger aunt, who has an intellectual disability, requires:
Sertraline, 50 mg tablets.
Lithium carbonate, 300 mg tablets.
Additionally: they are given magnesium capsules, Magnevit 4X.
We also need to cover medical appointments, pending tests, and taxis or safe transportation for healthcare visits and related errands.
Costs pending: when prices and monthly quantities for each treatment are available, they can be added here without changing the page structure.
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Safety and dignity
Home emergencies
Urgent repairs
The home has electrical hazards, leaks, and unsanitary conditions that threaten the safety and health of those who live here.
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Electrical hazards and leaks: the zinc roof has multiple leaks. During Maracaibo’s rains, water falls directly onto exposed wires running through the ceiling. The risk of a short circuit or fire is constant and frightening.
Unsanitary conditions and overgrowth: the yard and the front of the property are completely overgrown, creating nesting areas for rats, mosquitoes, and sources of infection. In addition, two large loquat trees need urgent pruning to prevent further structural damage.
This is not cosmetic remodeling. These repairs are necessary to reduce real dangers and make the home safer and more livable.
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Human care
Caregiving relief and support
Hours of assistance
One person cannot provide care around the clock indefinitely without becoming ill.
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A support person would help with supervision, meals, hygiene, routines, safety, and companionship while I run errands or rest.
People may also help by contributing time, food, services, or specific products.
These images show some of the problems affecting the safety, hygiene, and dignity of those who live here.
Roof leaks
When it rains, water enters several areas of the home and causes further deterioration.
Electrical hazard
Water falls onto areas with exposed wiring, creating fear of a short circuit or fire.
Overgrowth and unsanitary conditions
The yard and front area need urgent clearing to reduce mosquitoes, pests, and sources of infection.
Urgent pruning
The loquat trees need pruning to prevent further damage to the structure and surrounding area.
How to donate
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MoneyGram and Pago Móvil are the two main options. PayPal and Bancolombia are also available as alternatives.
United States and other countries
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Choose to send to Venezuela and select bank account deposit when available.
Enter the recipient’s information and the Banesco account details.
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Recipient
Elvira Villasmil
Bank and account type
Banesco · Checking account
Account number
0134-0081-48-0811144737
Identification number
V-16.081.645
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An alternative for people who wish to transfer from Colombia.
Savings account
690 000048 24
Identification number
5005740377
Account holderElvira Villasmil
Transparency
Your help reaches this home directly
I, Elvira Villasmil, organize this campaign directly. I record contributions, purchases, and progress, and I share part of the process so people can understand how the help is used.
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